Living in China has been great experience. Everything about China is fascinating. Well, the influx of the world into this 'world' has been even more intriguing. For a lot of us, our long stay in China has seen us lose our old loves and living a lonely life with little to no hope of finding 'the right' person. It's understandable. But on the female side even more challenging. Dating in China is not your traditional 'me and him' but more of a 'me and them'. I would like to believe foreign women have slowly came to terms with it. And have prepared their mental state for such because they seem not to be bothered. Listening to them do the female talk, one can tell the game is now up in their palms. Guys on the other hand seem to be having a blast and they are. They have foreign ladies hunting for them and local ones on their knees for them. 'If I was boy' Beyonce quickly rings in my mind. Well, I wouldn't blame our brothers. Local women are on their knees begging and willing to pay. At what cost, they just want to have a piece of the 'Sons of Turner'. Oh, what a life to live. On the other hand, I feel my brothers have become extremely greedy, they want to eat both beef and pork. Well, the serving is pretty delicious and poisonous too. People understand estimate prevalence of sexually transmitted diseases in these streets. HIV AIDS rate is high in China but because of language barrier, foreigners live a fantasy life. The scary part is the rate at which foreigners exchange partners. Exchange, No, Share, Oh, Rotate. Protection. What protection? It's called morning after. That's all. Protection from having babies and paying big money for abortion. No, other protection. Oh, I get it. Condoms, oh, well, one funny guy told me he doesn't use condoms because they are 'Made In China'.
Away from home, who can stop a little girl from clubbing. Oh, unless you bought her an air ticket which is her argument base. Alcohol, come on! Use the proper word 'bai jiu'. Who wouldn't afford to fill up a tub and soak themselves. Deception is when you are asked to come to club for free and later get glasses of free 'poison'. Sex is nothing in China. Guys get it left, right and center. Women too. Alcohol and sex are best buddies. There is no fear of tomorrow in China. Diaspora life.
I feel sorry for my local brothers. They can look but not touch. Their phones are full of fantasy photos of the melanin sisters. They want it so bad but no guts, perhaps this is what's going to save them. They want beef but it's beyond reach. I wish they knew.
Well, there are lucky ones who found true love in China and are happy. Wish them well. so don't worry about this corrupt environment. Noone is perfect. And for those who still hope, well, keep on going perhaps your own is not in mainland but Taiwan.
HIV is real. STDs are real. Pregnancy is real. Choice is yours.